| If you are the parent of a child on the autism spectrum | | | | for children (and adults) on the autism spectrum. My |
| and you sometimes wonder if your child loves you, the | | | | sessions are highly intuitive and the result of many |
| answer is yes, your child loves you. Of course I cannot | | | | years of inquiry into the inner alignment process. I can |
| know the specifics of your relationship with your child, | | | | tell you more about that in another article. What is |
| but I can answer this with confidence because I have | | | | important for you to understand here is that, in my |
| seen into this question and I have discovered the | | | | sessions, I have been called to make this translation. I |
| answer. In fact, I have proof. | | | | have found a way to communicate with these children |
| The Untranslated Message | | | | to let them know that this is love. And they are |
| Your child (on the spectrum) may not understand your | | | | surprised. They honestly didn't know it. |
| gestures and the tone of your voice as love. This is | | | | If your mind is not open to the multidimensionality of |
| hard to understand. Please stay with me. Even when | | | | consciousness, then this will all sound pretty strange to |
| you are tender, soft-spoken, cheerful, and, to you, | | | | you, I know. But I am putting it all here in writing, and |
| obviously loving, your child may not recognize this as | | | | placing my reputation on the line, because the results |
| love. Conversely, your child may be acting in ways that | | | | speak for themselves. And it is worth having a few |
| mean love to him or her but you do not recognize | | | | people think I'm a flake if even one person finds relief |
| them as loving gestures. | | | | from this discovery. |
| And so, it is like being in a room with someone who | | | | As a result of my "inner conversations" with these |
| does not speak English. You say, "I love you." They | | | | children, here are some of the results reported by the |
| have no idea what you are saying and so they do not | | | | parents: |
| react "appropriately." And if they say to you that they | | | | - "in the last few days my son has allowed me to hug |
| love you, but in their language, you would neither | | | | him and give him a kiss on the cheek." |
| understand nor respond. | | | | - "I keep noticing my son being more "touchy" he will |
| We have a cultural belief that while verbal language is | | | | come up a lot and put his arm around me and lets me |
| learned, non-verbal language is universal. So we think | | | | give him hugs frequently." |
| that even if the child is not talking, he or she should | | | | - "yesterday she came up and gave me a hug. I was |
| understand the meaning of a smile, a hug, and a loving | | | | surprised." |
| song. And if the child does not return the offering of | | | | - "During this vacation, he spontaneously hugged me |
| love in this way, we tend to feel rejected, unloved, and | | | | two times and said "I love you mommy!". What a |
| deeply sad. | | | | blessing!!." |
| But this is a misinterpretation. I repeat: This is a | | | | - "he said 'I love you mommy' many times." |
| misinterpretation. This lack of what we think of as | | | | - "she kept saying 'I love you mommy'" |
| loving interactions does not mean that the child does | | | | - "He has said I love you Mommy out of the blue and |
| not love you. In fact, your child loves you intensely. | | | | he even told me I was pretty, which he has never said |
| Many of the children on the spectrum do not recognize | | | | before. My husband's jaw almost hit the ground when I |
| these so-called universal messages. They are not | | | | told him" |
| responding to your expressions of love because they | | | | Conclusion |
| must be translated into something that the child can | | | | If you are the parent of a child on the autism spectrum |
| understand. And once the translation begins, the | | | | and you sometimes wonder if your child loves you, the |
| outpouring of love from your child can be experienced | | | | answer is yes, your child loves you. Never again doubt |
| in many ways, even verbally. | | | | this and your child will eventually comprehend, respond, |
| How I know this is true. | | | | and say, "I love you. |
| I have been offering remote inner alignment sessions | | | | |