Tips for Helping Your Child With Pre-reading Skills

Experts in child development often say that parentshave we all witnessed parents who talk to their
are the first educators. And, whether parents elect tochildren while dressing them? That parent might say
traditionally educate their children or dedicate asomething like "Here's your pretty pink dress!" or
significant portion of their own time, effort, and"Would you like to wear the red shirt or the green
resources to homeschool their children, the simple truthone?" Those parents who talk often with their children
is that parents can, should, and do begin educating theirlong before the kids can hold up their own end of the
children long before they introduce any sort of formalconversation are, almost stealthily, teaching their
education.children pre-reading skills.
Many parents, especially new and homeschoolingAnother way young children learn pre-reading skills is
parents, hesitate to "push" a child into reading beforethrough exposure to those well-recognized early
they are "ready." However, reading is merely a visualreader board books. These books, made from thick
representation of the spoken word. And, just as wecardboard and easy for less-than-nimble fingers to
teach our children to talk and the appropriate wordsmanipulate have simple, colorful pictures and short,
for objects and people, we can begin early to teachbasic words. They help pre-readers learn to associate
our children how letters (i.e., symbols) represent certainwords with objects and people in a different way than
sounds, and when those letter symbols are grouped,they were learning when they held an object in their
they form words. This natural education process ishands while mom or dad told them what that object
less "pushing" than it is simple language acquisition.was or when they began learning that people had
Some educators and experts refer to this process asnames and titles.
pre-reading.Measuring Pre-reading Success
Pre-reading Leads to Reading SuccessThe success of a parent's pre-reading instruction can
Pre-reading activities begin early and most parentsactually be measured. In general, children who have
aren't even aware they are preparing their younghad lots of pre-reading activity exposure begin
children to read. Parents might sing the alphabet songspeaking earlier than children who have not. Consider
to help a cranky baby get to sleep. A child's bedroomthat research indicates that parents who speak to their
or playroom might be festooned with an ABC border.children often seem to have kids who begin to speak
Vibrant letter magnets could adorn the refrigeratorat an earlier age. Parents who limit how much they
enabling parents and children to form words. Thesespeak to their very young children might notice that
(apparently) unusual activities are what preparethose children are "late" talkers.
children to learn to read.Children learn quickly and naturally, given the
Pre-reading is really all about exposing the child to bothopportunity. And, although parents might be hesitant to
spoken and written language. Parents can set theirpush their children into learning, they must also
children up for success without pushing by making sureunderstand that it is their responsibility to give their
that they have the maximum exposure to thesechildren the tools they need to develop the proper
activities. Technology has even given children a newpre-reading skills. Providing children with fun and
opportunity for early learning called syllabics. Syllabics,interesting ways to develop language skills is very
which focuses on the sounds associated with alldifferent from requiring a minimum number of formal
letters, or phonics, which deals mainly with the soundsteaching hours for pre-reading children. An important
associated with the consonants, can be easily learnedscenario is to focus on learning fun. The second might
with readily available preschool computer software.be more along the lines of the "pushing" that parents
Pre-reading, Games, and Conversationare trying to avoid. Knowing the difference between
Even before children learn to talk, parents naturally setthe two can set the stage for reading success.
them up for verbal communication. How many times